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Do you take private pics of Liv on your phone?

Anonymous

Are we talking just private or private private? *laughs* Because if we’re talking about the latter, no, I don’t.  My life is a bit too public and, for fear of ending up on Page Six, I don’t keep private photos on my phone.

11 minutes ago on April 23rd, 2014 |J
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Which of your friends are you most likely to, a) go shopping with, b) go to a museum with, c) answer a call from in the middle of the night, d) go to a party with, e) get into a fight with

Anonymous

askcaseynovak:

askalexcabot:

Friends not including Liv, I assume?

a) Casey (though I love shopping enough I’d go with Don if he wanted)

b) Abbie, probably (though my typical museum buddy is Olivia).

c) Any one of my friends, honestly.  I’m always there for them - day and night.

d) Serena

e) Well, Abbie’s buttons sure are fun to push *laughs*

You’re my favorite person to shop with! Amanda hates shopping. How an you hate shopping? It’s not normal.

I need to hit up an electronics store for a new computer, you game? I know it’s not clothes but a shopping trip is a shopping trip.

Well, you put up with my treating you like a living doll *laughs*

I’m game. I can’t say I’d be much help, but I know a little bit about computers.

17 hours ago on April 22nd, 2014 |J |VIA -SOURCE
Which of your friends are you most likely to, a) go shopping with, b) go to a museum with, c) answer a call from in the middle of the night, d) go to a party with, e) get into a fight with

Anonymous

Friends not including Liv, I assume?

a) Casey (though I love shopping enough I’d go with Don if he wanted)

b) Abbie, probably (though my typical museum buddy is Olivia).

c) Any one of my friends, honestly.  I’m always there for them - day and night.

d) Serena

e) Well, Abbie’s buttons sure are fun to push *laughs*

17 hours ago on April 22nd, 2014 |J
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Do you like The Hobbit both movies and book? It may be a weird question to ask but I like you and I wanted to know if you liked it, Mellon nin. (That's Elvish for my friend)

Anonymous

I’m ashamed to say I’ve never seen the movies, nor have I read the book.  But I’ve heard nothing but wonderful things about both.

(P.S. I like you too, anon ^.^)

20 hours ago on April 22nd, 2014 |J
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Did you ever have panic attacks when you were 14? If you did what did you do to control them? I'm 14 and I have them all the time. Once I blacked out from one. Meditation goes only so far. Please help me mellon nin.


Not so much at 14, but definitely into my 20s and even today.  Panic attacks can, for lack of a better word, suck, especially when you can’t control them.  But, if you start to learn more about yourself and what triggers these attacks, the easier it gets to control.  If you know that a certain thought or action triggers a panic attack, you’ll eventually learn how to talk yourself out of those thoughts and talk yourself into action.  I know it’s a lot harder than it sounds (if anybody knows that, it’s me), but it really does work.

I’m lucky enough to have a supportive group of friends and family that have been there for me in my worst moments.  It’s always a good idea to have at least one person who can maybe talk you down.  These days, if I find myself having a panic attack, I try to focus my attention on something, anything, else - like thinking of my breathing and consciously taking deep, even breaths.

You’re right when you say meditation can only get you so far sometimes and it’s certainly harder to go through all of this alone. If all else fails, there are counselors and therapists out there that can really help you.  I’m not a doctor, so I don’t know what the regulations and rules are about medication, but you should also talk to doctor about that.

Annnnnd, you can always talk to any one of us if you feel a panic attack coming on.   

1 day ago on April 22nd, 2014 |J
Tagged as: #anxiety tw #kiraofbajor 

All asks are queued and I do believe most of them will be published tomorrow afternoon-evening.

Goodnight, Tumblr <3

1 day ago on April 21st, 2014 |J
Plans for Easter?

Anonymous

Absolutely none.

(Happy Easter, by the way!)

3 days ago on April 20th, 2014 |J
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What you been up to lady?

Anonymous

Oh, you know, the usual: putting bad guys in prison, being a kickass wife and mom *laughs*

2 weeks ago on April 9th, 2014 |J
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I got my belly button pierced and my parents don't know. I've asked them before and my mom said if my dad says yes then I can. But my dad would have gotten so pissed off if I asked that, so I didn't bother. So I just waited until I came to college and did it behind their back. I kind of feel guilty but I love my piercing so much... I take very good care of it...

Anonymous

Parents often hate the choices we make; if my mom knew about half of the things I got into in college, she would’ve killed me. But the thing is, you’re an adult now. The decisions you make are yours and yours alone. Your dad may not like it, but it’s not his belly button; it’s yours.

I’m glad you’re taking good care of it!

2 weeks ago on April 6th, 2014 |J
Show a screen shot of the home screen of your iphone

Anonymous

askdetrollins:

askalexcabot:

Very, very nice :) Beautiful lady!

That she is :)

2 weeks ago on April 2nd, 2014 |J |VIA -SOURCE
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